I just rediscovered a song this weekend that I’d completely forgotten about. Considered an “oldie,” this gem has inspired me because of how painfully timeless and relevant it still is today. And I’d like to share it with the blogosphere.
Over the weekend, I rewatched Mean Girls for probably the 100th time. This time, I paused it and decided to look up some of Janis Ian’s songs. Say what you want, but I love Mean Girls particularly because it’s so well written and naming Lizzy Caplan’s character Janis Ian was brilliant. My parents grew up listening to music from the 60s and 70s and that’s all they played while I was growing up. I forgot about the painful beauty of one song in particular- Society’s Child.
This song confronts the issue of racial inequality. While equality movements like the civil rights and feminist movements have been hugely successful, neither movement has completely eradicated the issue at hand. Being who I am and especially working for GLAAD, I immediately and instinctively began to examine Society’s Child through the lens of the LGBT equality movement, and it instantly brought this song into 2012.
Society’s Child laments the bias that Ian’s parents and society in general had about her falling in love with someone of a different race. Lines like, “They turn around and say why don’t you stick to your own kind” and “Preachers of equality, think they believe it then why won’t they just let us be” really resonated with me. I’ve encountered many people in my life who claim to be open minded and accepting, but are so uncomfortable with the idea of a loving same-sex couple, let alone allowing them the right to marry. Ian called out this hypocrisy so candidly and it’s sad how it is still prevalent in society today for interracial relationships, let alone same-sex relationships. The song ends with a hopeful line “When we’re older things may change” but then she admits she’s only “society’s child” and “for now this is the way [things] must remain.” It was a big deal to discuss this topic in the 60s and the fact that this song was one of her most commercially successful songs showed that the tide might finally be changing. Today, with 8 states fully allowing same-sex marriages, it seems like the tide might finally be changing again. Society has always been heading toward equality, albeit slowly and not without conflict. I just hope full equality for all people is something that I get to experience in my lifetime.

Another reason why I think it’s interesting to look at this song through the lens of the LGBT equality movement is that a few years ago, Ian herself came out as a lesbian. I can’t help but wonder if she wrote this song with that at least in the back of her mind. Maybe not, but either way, this is just one song out of many that is timeless and could easily be sung today with just a few changes. This inspires me so much. It gives me a renewed sense of hope that society will continue to progress in terms of equality. After all, baby steps are still steps in the right direction.



